Thursday, 15 May 2014

Answering Back

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Just thought it would be appropriate to really get into this comment from a viewer on my channel.

Some people can be so tactless. NO, this isn’t a constructive criticism. It is not. Quicks Q., perhaps you should take pointers from this site: http://www.wikihow.com/Criticize-Constructively

“Sana hindi ka na lang sumikat…”—really? What a mean thing to say to someone. I’m not surprised, because crab mentality is common in our country.

“Dati yung videos mo talagang nafee-feel mo yung passion pero ngayong sponsored ka na…”—hold on, this comment was on my HAIR CHALK VIDEO. And it is NOT sponsored. If you watched it, you’d know how I DISLIKED the product. And gumastos po ako ng 228.00 para sa full size and refill para lang ma-video ko para sainyo. I spent my OWN money buying that product so that I could film it because I thought it would be HELPFUL to people who watches me and wants to try it too!

“…puro hauls, review na basta basta lang.”—they say, “Stick to your forte.” Mine is definitely not makeup tutorials. And lately I’ve been LOVING doing hauls and trying out new stuff for the SAKE OF REVIEWING THEM FOR YOU. Bakit ako magrereview na basta basta? Edi sana hindi na lang ako nagfilm.

“Vlogs na ‘para may maiupload na lang.”—you are so unfair. If only you knew HOW MUCH EFFORT I PUT INTO MY VIDEOS AND VLOGS. Kala mo madali magfilm ng sarili araw araw para maishare sa mga taong taos pusong gustong manuod sakin? (Do you think it’s that easy to film everyday to share videos to people who genuinely love my videos?) IT TAKES EFFORT. And yung effort na yun, hindi mo maiintindihan hangga’t IKAW na ang gagawa.

“No more thorough reviews na makakatulong”—didn’t I just put out a bunch of new videos which ACTUALLY HELPED a lot of girls decide whether or not they should buy a product or not?

“I’m sorry but you’ve gone downhill.”—what a way to end your supposedly constructive criticism. NOBODY GOES DOWNHILL. It’s only the people surrounding them that wants them to believe they’ve gone downhill.

THAT’S ALL I HAVE TO SAY.

We are not robots. And I hope I addressed all your concerns in this post.

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    1. I have long accepted that fact. Did SHE consider MY feelings? It's a two-way street Shiela. It would also be fair if she respected this post. After all, this is my opinion too, about her comment. I've been handling these types of comments for YEARS.

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    2. yup i agree.. may right nmn si say to post it publicly since ung ngcomment s knya eh public rin... win win situation lang... yaan mo say... cgro masaya n sya ngaun n nmention mo sya.. sumikat nrn sya... XD

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    3. Yes miss say inggit lng mga taong ganyan!pra s akin the best k!

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  3. hahahaha inggit lang yan seo Ms. Say... kasi nga SIKAT ka na!!! Just don't get affected with what others might say against you.. Naiinis cya dahil sikat ka na pero view pa rin cya ng view sa Vlogs mo hahahahahahaha... Dyan ka masaya so stick with it!!! Marami pa kmi na nandito na suki and supporters mo sa mga Vlogs and Hauls mo so wag ka paapekto, just look forward for more beauty and opportunity. Keep it up and break her neck este break a leg!!!!!!

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    1. THANK YOU! You are totally correct, Chai.

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  5. Miss say...they dont deserve your time... just ignore them...
    Mdme ng lolove sau

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  6. Ok lang yan ate say may mga ganyan talagang tao and hindi natin maiiwasan yan ang importante mas mrami parin nag mamahal sau <3 kung ayaw niya sau it's ok wag nalang xa manood ng videos mo diba..masyado xa hehe smile lang miss say wag ma stress <3 xoxo

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  7. yup i agree.. may right nmn si say to post it publicly since ung ngcomment s knya eh public rin... win win situation lang... yaan mo say... cgro masaya n sya ngaun n nmention mo sya.. sumikat nrn sya... XD

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  8. Actually when we buy products, minsan mas gusto natin opinion ng consumer kaysa sa product description ng company. Mga reviews basically opinion ng individual. Same as Vlogs. We get to hear other people's opinion para lumawak pananaw natin sa mga bagay bagay kahit simple stuffs lang. I personally think mga review, hauls videos, etc. very helpful and fun to watch. :)))

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  9. Dapat tinakpan mo Miss Say yung name nung nagcomment. Baka kasi maaway sya ng mga blog readers mo. Pero I disagree naman with her point of view, I can see how effort you are pagdating sa all kinds ng videos na pinopost mo. :) Just love the followers and ignore the haters. :3 More power girl! :">

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  10. nope.... they publicly said their feelings where everyone can read... she can publicly say what she wants too...

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  11. Nevermind nlng po cla miss say, as long na happy ka sa nagawa Go on.. :)

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  12. What Say and other youtube vloggers are doing is not easy. Ako nga,magpapicture lang hiyang hiya na ko yun pa kayang magsalita,ipakita sa madaming tao yun buhay thru videos malamang lumubog na ko sa kinauupuan ko.. They put effort,time,money every time they make video tutorial,review or vlog di lang basta basta yun. I think sila yun mga taong hindi selfish kasi di nila pinagdadamot sa mga viewers nila yun oras,effort,money,knowledge and skills nila. Pwede naman nila di gawin yun eh but they chose to help others na in need of knowledge na shineshare nila. Instead of puttin somebody down bakit di natin try maging happy for them? This may sound funny pero share ko na din,everytime may youtube vlogger na nagcecelebrate ng pagdami ng subscriber nila ang saya saya din ng feeling ko parang ako yun vlogger eh. Hehe! Because ang isip ko isa ako sa mga subscriber na nakabuo dun sa bilang ng dami ng subbies nila na feeling ko part na din ako ng success nila. Kasi like si Say tanda ko mga 1 1/2 year ago di pa ganun kadami subbies nya when i subscribed hilig ko pa magtanong kay Say nun which is sinasagot nya. Tuwang tuwa ako nun everytime makikita ko sinasagot nya tanong ko,same with anneclutz proud din ako nun nagcelebrate sya ng 1st anniv nya kasi few pa lang subbies nya nun when i started watchinh her vids pero look at her now dami na subbies. They show gratitudw namam sa subbies nila through give aways and pagrespond sa mga tanong natin so its wrong to say at wish natin silang di maganda.

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  13. "Mine is definitely not makeup tutorials". Correct me if I'm wrong po pero kasi nalaman kita/ung tungkol sa inyo sa channel nio dahil sa make-up tutorials. Ever since napanuod ko na kau noon sa make-up tutorial pinapanood ko na kau palagi...More power po...:)

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  14. Tao nga naman.... all i can say is keep up the good work your doing baby say. Ikaw sa sarili mo nakakaalam kung ano ba talaga at para saan ang ginagawa mo. Laging merong taong hihili sayo pababa and dont let them. Ang lagi mo isipin mas marami ang naniniwala sayo kaysa mamatahin ang ginagawa mo. Continue what you love doing. Just continue educating our fellow filipinas and dont let these kind of people to put you down. Keep it up!

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  15. inggit lang po sila ate say,... anung di nakakatulong,.. its make me inspired nga po eh.. sa mga tutorials mo po... its make me help nga po na maging magaling magmake up eh.... mga taong yun papansin lang po yung mga yun ate say,.. kasi di ata sila sikat kaya po gustong magpapansin.... basta ako idol na idol ko po kayo lalo na pag dating sa kagandahan..... =)

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  16. Documenting your every day life in VLOGS is FREAKING HARD! I tried it and I just uploaded one dahil ang hirap!

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  17. God gave you that talent Ms. Say to Share and Help other girls how to be more beautiful and to be confident sa sarili. Just continue ehat you are doing because you Inspire us and also me. I will always love and support you Ms. Say. Thank you for the time and effort na bingay mo for us. But honestly I miss you doing a Tutorial. So I hope you can do it soon if your not busy na masyado. God bless you always coz you have a good heart Ms. SAY ♥

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  19. I feel so bad reading her comment sis! Some people are just plain jealous of you to have come up with such derogative comments. And ikaw 'Quicks Q.' if you're not effing happy about it, then gumawa ka ng sarili mo.

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  20. Hay nako, basta ate Say para sa akin nakakatulong tlga yung mga reviews mo at enjoy ako sa panunuod ng vlogs mo. Don't mind your haters ate Say, nandito nmn kming sumusuporta sayo <3

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  21. masyadong choosey si viewer na yan hahaha nevermind namlang miss say<3

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  22. Hi Say! I think yung commenter meant well but then you have point in this issue too.. like who in the world would know when a person is going down? Grabe ka naman commenter...choose proper words in explaining your point hindi parang binara bara mo yun comment mo.

    As a blogger and vlogger as well mahirap talaga ginagawa naten..mag film pa nga lang in public nakaka hiya na paano pa kung araw arawin?! Pero I actually feel more at ease na with vLogging kasi I do it sa events and also with people that are comfortable with the idea as well.

    Don't mind people saying those things Say because you know that is not true. I appreciate that you answered back since medyo below the belt na for me yung sinabi nya for you.

    Keep vLogging and doing hauls.. nakakatuwa kaya yung hauls mo! and if its sponsored who cares? Madaming vlogger ang livelihood ang vlogging kaya don't judge nalang

    :)

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  23. I actually think that the review about the hair chalk is informative knowing that is is a first impression video. Hindi ko nga rin alam na sa wet hair pala ginagamit yun. We can't please everyone. I've been vlogging for quite some time na rin and sharing my life to a bunch of people isn't easy at all. It takes so much effort to film especially outdoors. Imagine all the people looking at you thinking kung anong kalokohan ang ginagawa mo diba? Plus the risk na rin that your life is somewhat open to the public. Yung simpleng may kukunin ka lang nagiging mahirap kasi kailangan kita sa cam. Not that I am complaining or anything pero sana napicture nya muna before she actually judged you. And regarding sa no new tutorials and looks seen on your channel, I know why that happened. A lot of people are comparing you to other YT gurus and you said your piece before na tutorials talaga isn't your forte. Maybe this person isn't really that updated kaya nakapagcomment ng ganun. Anyways, I don't get to watch your hauls since iniiwasan ko ang hauls baka mapabili ako kaya I cannot comment on that. Just do what you think is right and ignore comments like this. :)

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  24. Calm down Ms Say.. alot of people, include me :), loves your videos very much.. don't ever stop uploading those videos.. I watch them every day.. keep your head high po.. wala kang gingawang masama.. hehehe.. you have alot of followers and alot of people loves you.. sila nalang po isipin mo.. :)

    Soar high! no one can pull you down, as long as maganda ung intension and maganda ung gingawa mo.. tsaka maganda ka po.. :D

    Keep up the good work! :)

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  25. Oh my gee..these pity creatures watch and follow your vlogs then say those comments directly to your face as if it didnt help them at all..then, its better for them NOT to watch, instead of those mouthful criticism na wala namang kasense sense at all..SAY,you cant please every one so just ignore those f*ckin b!tches.. KEEP GOING CAUSE YOU STILL HAVE US SUPPORTING.. we love you!!!!

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  26. i have been watching your videos for awhile now and i see nothing bad about your videos. the new ones or the bad ones. As i compare your old videos to your current ones all i see is improvement maybe a bit change in style but other than that i have nothing bad to say.

    You DESERVE all the things that God has currently blessed you and will be blessing you in the future. and i understand how hard it is to edit those daily vlogs that you do and they how they are done. Always bringing a camera with and talking to it, i have tried that one time and i get that you might get a lot of stares from people who do not understand what you're doing.

    so i really appreciate all of those reviews and daily vlogs that you post. I am a student and those reviews have helped me alot in deciding whether to save or spurge on a product. Keep up the good work and don't let people bring you down. A whole lot of successful beauty gurus undergo bashing and hateful comments all the time. Like michelle phan, Bubzbeauty, etc. and it has only made them stronger as a person so i salute you if facing this head on..

    good luck in your future endeavors.

    just from a fan:))

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  27. Hi,

    I guess Ms. Say needs a breather. Take a deep breath and try to not be affected by harsh words. But let’s try to analyze what the commenter said.

    She obviously is an avid fan. She loved your works and videos.

    Try to look at her comment at a different angle. Maybe her words were not chosen correctly and were quite offending.

    By the looks of it, she probably "thought" that your videos lately were not as adoring as before. She kind of wished for you not to be famous probably because she saw or felt something in your past videos that she can longer see or feel now. *not quite sure what would that be though* But let’s give her that chance, the chance to say how she feels. And besides most people think otherwise! I don’t see her as a hater or someone that wants to pull you down.

    If you feel consoled to know that everyone hates that poor little girl because of this blog, then be it. Your fans are all rooting for you. Comments like that do not deserve this kind of attention but I don’t think the commenter deserves to be disliked like this as well.

    I think it would be best to forget all these and just pull this blog down.

    *This post is harm-free. I live on the neutral side. I’m not perfect. My soul isn’t that pure (LOL) Let’s not easily judge. Let’s live life with less negativity! Cheers! =D

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    1. I totally agree with you. I love all the videos Ms. Say makes and I think she's doing great! But I believe that everyone should feel free to share his opinion, whether it's positive of negative. The problem with posting comments on the internet is that we don't really know how the writer meant to bring his comment so we often interpret things wrong. The majority loves Ms. Say's videos so I think there's no reason for panicking. x

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  28. Hi Ms. Say! Nakakapikon na rin talaga yung mga ganyang comment noh?, Don't mind them, meron lang talagang mga ganyang tao..Mainit na nga ang panahon, dadagdagan pa nila init ng ulo mo..Stay pretty ok? Mwaahugs!

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  29. I love say's videos. I'm learning a lot about beauty, places to go to, food etc. Her videos are so informative. So, the comment is a total nonsense and such a bitchy move.. :)

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  30. naku miss say,. isa yan sa mga viewers mo na nakaramdam na ng inggit sayo,.. yun tipong may masabi lang para mapansin mo--- pero ako thumbs up para sa lahat ng videos mo, sana kahit one time lang makaattend ako ng isa sa mga workshop mo :'( ... God bless po

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  31. Hi miss say! Don't mind them na lang po..actually I salute you for doing those videos. Gusto ko rin magshare ng knowledge ko but mahirap kasi kailangan mag edit and yung concept dapat brilliant. Just keep on doing what you really love :)

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  32. You're always the best to me :)

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  33. I don't see anything wrong with doing sponsored videos. I would still watch it to support my fave guru. Ganyan po talaga Ate Say pag sikat na may haters na po pero stay strong madami pa din naman po nakakaapreciate ng efforts ninyo like me <3 <3

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  34. Naku inggit lng yan... At walang magawa sa buhay.

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  35. Naku inggit lng yan... At walang magawa sa buhay.

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  36. Ignore mo na lang siya ate say, nandito pa naman kami, isa lang siya pero eto kami marami nag susupport sayo! God bless po!

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  37. :D napaka-insecure ng comment na to. hahaha . but yes as much as i want to be positive nakakadown talaga when people say mean things about you. all i can say is we all have our own trials. kanya kanyang problema at pinagdadaanan sa buhay. dont hate her for saying mean things but be humble that she may be undergoing some problems on her own and she deals with it by posting these kind of comments online.
    I've always loved your vlogs say, but you have to understand that you are a public figure now. (perks of being popular ^_^ ) you have to be very careful on what you say, how you look like because at the end of the day people has things to say.

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  38. Late ko na nabasa 'to Ate Say, pero don't mind them. Just keep doing what you're doing. You're an inspiration for me kasi, I miss your blogposts. x Hope you're well po. - Nica

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  39. Way Back ,THURSDAY, 15 MAY 2014.

    Naloka ako sa comment nya Girl. Honestly i enjoy following your daily blog. Make up and beauty product review mo super like ko.. mas lalo na ung Shopping Haul mo.. Keep it up girl.. you are part of my daily habit girl.

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  41. I really like you post good blog,Thanks for your sharing.

    หนังฝรั่ง

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